IK Ogbonna's wife Sonia posted this cryptic message amid marriage controversy

Because of this, most of their posts on social media always seem to be saying something. Sonia has dropped numerous cryptic posts that seem to be talking about her marriage. She has now taken to her Instagram page to fan the flames. She wrote:

“You can choose between REACTING to people or situations or ACTING DELIBERATELY. Reaction is triggered and DETERMINED by others/their behavior towards us, it’s an impulse, a need to respond in the way we were approached – often aggressively or negatively and it’s sort of a mechanism of defense.

But before you REACT you need to ask yourself “Is this action reflecting my true nature and who I really am or wish to be?” . Don’t allow anyone have a power over you. I choose to be in charge over my life so I ACT DELIBERATELY. Meaning, I want my actions to be a reflection of WHO I AM, no matter what & no matter circumstances.

What you say or think is who you are, how I respond is who I am. I love me some me especially when I stay true to myself , against odds. Life isn’t perfect but it’s SOOOOOO BEAUTIFUL, and I wish you recover from whatever you are going through so you can as well realize the same, before it passes you by because you were too busy feeding ill thoughts, bad wishes and rotten emotions instead filling your mind with gratitude & love.

I’m a light baby, can’t you feel it.”

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