Consider expressing your love for your partner in a different way than you usually do. If you repeatedly express your love in the same way, these behaviors may go unnoticed by your partner as expressions of love. Express your love for your partner in a way that is new to both of you.
This can be as simple as dancing in your living room rather than sitting on the sofa. If you don’t have the time or energy to plan an exciting activity, turn up the music. Music can enhance our physiological arousal and can make our partners more sexually attractive, especially male partners. Instead of a traditional phone call, drop a love note on your partner’s email or an “I love you reminder”.
The idea is just to do or say something different from the normal. Be spontaneous and not stereotyped. Be creative.
