According to her, “For some reason, people (mostly females) are brainwashed to think that every relationship that didn’t lead to marriage is a “waste of time”. Where are you rushing to?”
She went on to say, “Let me start with à gently reminder-marriage isn’t any form of achievement like some of you might think . You make yourself a Queen, no one will do it for you. Achievement is to be happy. Period. Let me explain further: everybody was sent to our lives for a purpose, but NOT EVERYONE was meant to stay. Some are meant to teach you things you need to know to continue your journey towards your destiny, but without them. Your paths will split after their mission is complete ,and that’s not a tragedy but a huge blessing.”
“You helped each other out now its time to go. No regrets, no hard feelings because EVERYTHING sent your way is ALWAYS a GIFT. Experience is the greatest source of wisdom, and be thankful for it. Real purpose of it is not to teach you about others or to make you develop a negative stereotype about them (“all men this/all men that”) but to allow you to get to know YOURSELF better.
“That’s the real purpose of interactions with others-to trig a knowledge that will help you understand yourself better,to understand what you really want and what you can/can’t deal with.
