Former Big Brother Naija finalist Tokunbo Idowu, who is popularly known as TBoss has come out to confirm rumours that she was pregnant and have to put to bed.
Well, technically they are not rumours as those stories are actually true.
In a fairly lengthy Instagram post, which she began with a tirade on how some people use social media to reveal everything about their private, the former reality star says she decided to enjoy her then-impending baby birth without any of the negativities that are common on social media.
“Not because I was ashamed or nothing of the sort. Hey, I’m a grown woman let’s be Real,” admonished the star who has also starred in Nollywood films since leaving the Big Brother Naija house as a finalist.
” I wanted to enjoy this journey, savour every little moment, understand what was happening to me, my body, keep my sanity for my good & the good of my unborn child. Pregnancy is indeed a roller coaster ride and as Ecstatic as I was, it really hit me,” TBoss says
TBoss also said that her friends were very much aware that she was pregnant and for those that didn’t know, “oh well- maybe that’s your cue,” she says.
Check out the full post:
“What is it about our Generation that’s Always so eager to post up our private lives on Social Media?
“We get Good news- SM, Not so good news- SM, Someone offends us, someone owes us money, breakups, new home, new car, new shoes, fake designer shoes, borrowed stuff- There’s Absolutely No Mystery anymore. You wanna know about a person? Just look up their SM pages & you’d get a pretty close picture of whom you’re dealing with.
“I agree I’m not exactly social media compliant but I’m also guilty of sometimes putting more than I ought to have out there, thereby subjecting myself to being misinterpreted, misquoted, misunderstood & highly misjudged.
“And that’s why it was extremely difficult for me to keep my pregnancy all to myself. I mean it was without a doubt The Best news I have ever had & God knows I wanted to shout it out so as to be heard to the ends of the earth BUT I had to … Not because I was ashamed or nothing of the sort. Hey, I’m a Grown woman let’s be Real.
“I was Afraid. I was afraid of exposing My best news to the negativity of little & sad minded people of which unfortunately happen to be a lot… I wanted to enjoy this journey, savour every little moment, understand what was happening to me, my body, keep my sanity for my good & the good of my unborn child.
Pregnancy is indeed a roller coaster ride and as Ecstatic as I was, it really hit me.
“My friends all knew- if you didn’t oh well- maybe that’s your cue. I went shopping & out a lot & took lots of photos with my beautiful fans – Selfies Only of course & never felt the need to cover up or hide anything- And why should I? Do you know the struggle a lot of women go through to get what I have? A Free Gift from God! And you think at 35 I ought to feel some type of way because someone has an unsolicited opinion about me? Ha Ha Ha… Silence is NOT denial.
“My silence was just that: Silence- until I was ready to speak about it.”
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