Doctor Cupid: How to save a relationship that is falling apart
Do you feel like your relationship is falling apart and you’re no longer in control of it? Does it affect your emotions? Are there negative vibes in your relationship that you can’t explain?
Well, if your response to all of these questions is affirmative and you feel you are at a crossroad, relax, take a deep breath and read on.
There are various ways to know when a relationship is falling apart. It could be your instincts screaming the information into your thoughts, or the negative vibes you’re getting from it. Either way, there is always a way to tell.
Relationships are a lot of hard work and when partners are in love and are willing to put in the work to save their relationship from falling apart, that’s more hard work however, it is achievable.
This week, Doctor Cupid is discussing the various ways to save a relationship from falling apart and staying as your partner’s secret obsession.
The first tool needed to fix a relationship that’s falling apart is honesty. The first step on the road of salvaging the relationship is to have an honest conversation. A solution to a problem can not be given until the problem is first identified. Both parties involved need to honestly tell themselves how they feel and what they think about what is going on.
After the conversation has taken place, both parties have to be willing to act responsibly and follow the solutions and the ways forward that have been stated.
Try new things
Nothing is more medicinal to a relationship that’s falling apart than trying out new things. Unwind, be free, discover your likes and dislikes, get to know each other again. This is an unofficial way of starting over. It all depends on if both couples are interested in making things work.
Physical touch is everything and more for relationships. It involves having unplanned kisses, hugs, holding hands, etc. This is a way of showing assurance without voicing them, making your partner realize that they are your secret obsession.
Several times, the little things in relationships are important in keeping them from falling apart. It could be random text messages, random gifts, making coffee for your partner in the morning or unplanned dates.
The beautiful thing about these little things is that it has got no rule book. It’s how it flows with you.
These are the practical steps you need to take to save your relationship from falling apart. You could try also these resources on his secret obsession website that will definitely help you in more ways than you can imagine.