‘STOP passing hurtful comments to those waiting to have a child.’ – Sunmbo Adeoye shares her difficulties before she had a child

She cautioned people to be careful of the words and the questions that they ask women who are still waiting for the fruit of the womb.

The mother of four used her own experience as an illustration to share her frustrations with these people. Sunmbo, who had two sons with 2face Idibia before marrying her husband, Pastor David Adeoye, said people began to ask questions when she did not immediately have a baby with her husband.

She also shared that a lot of the things that people said actually hurt her, and she advised people to stop saying insensitive things. She wrote:

“Concerned citizens : “All this sisi Eko you are doing, just give pastor a child pls, we are begging.

“My physics face : “The babies are coming ma/sir”

“My mind : “Do you people know what I’ve been through trying to ensure this happens?”

“Me Behind closed doors : God when?

“Today nko? Thank you Jesus for victory over delay. It Feels good to actually have the babies here.

“STOP passing hurtful comments to those waiting to have a child. You don’t have an idea what they are going through behind closed doors and the words you utter out of concern may break them down emotionally. Don’t be the one causing distress to someone else’s feelings.

“Woman, hear the word of the Lord to you this day : “· Exodus 23:26 (NAS) “There shall be no one miscarrying or barren in your land; I will fulfill the number of your days.”

“Sir/ma, this is still the word of the Lord to you, so don’t lose Hope : “You will be blessed more than any other people; none of your men or women will be childless, nor will any of your livestock be without young.” – Deut 7:14

“God is not a man, so he does not lie. HE is not human, so HE does not change his mind. Has HE ever spoken and failed to act? Has HE ever promised and not carried it through? Wait for your miracle a little more please! It’s closer than you think.”

Concerned citizens : “All this sisi Eko you are doing ? just give pastor a child pls, we are begging.

My physics face : ? “The babies are coming ma/sir”

My mind : “Do you people know what I’ve been through trying to ensure this happens?”

Me Behind closed doors : ? God when?

— #InspiringChangeConference | Mar 8-12 | RUNFORWARD (@SunmboAdeoye) August 27, 2020