Anita Okoye shares signs that you are exactly where you need to be

Anita Okoye, the wife of Paul Okoye of the defunct Psquare, who is now known by the stage name, Rudeboy, has given fans some inspirational tips. 

Anita took to her Instagram page to state the various signs that show that you are where you are meant to be.

” I started thinking about it throughout my awesome meal(s)! At the end of the meal, I had stumbled on signs that indicate that you are exactly where you need to be.”, the mum of three writes.

Anita, who was recently invited to Chimamanda’s private dinner for Lupita Nyong’o in Lagos said one of the ways to know if you are where you are meant to be is by allowing yourself feel. According to Anita, “When you see other people’s successes you think: “That’s their path”, NOT “Why don’t I have that, too?”

According to Anita, her reflections were prompted after she saw a sign that hung at a restaurant where she had gone to have a meal. The sign really made an impact on her mind as shared a couple of tips on how to stay positive. She made the posts on her Instagram page.

Read her posts below.

Her first post reads: “‘You Are Exactly Where You Need To Be!’ This sign behind me is super thought-provoking… I started thinking about it throughout my awesome meal(s)! At the end of the meal, I had stumbled on signs that indicate that you are exactly where you need to be.

“#1. You’re letting yourself feel! – You cry, laugh, worry and feel joy when the moment calls for it.

“#2. When you see other people’s successes you think: “That’s their path”, NOT “Why don’t I have that, too?

“#3. You’ve taken responsibility for your life! Your primary goal is to make sure that you can take care of yourself and potentially, the people you love and care about the most! 

“There’s more… I’ll have them on my other posts.

“Have a blessed new Month! Stay Safe, Wash your hands, remain blessed!”

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9MU8APDCM-/

Her second post reads:

“SIGNS THAT INDICATE YOU’RE EXACTLY WHERE YOU NEED TO BE (cont’d):

“4. Things have just seemed to work out, even though you were scared or anxious that they wouldn’t.

“#5. You’re more interested in being at peace than you are being “happy”. – you are more interested in building peaceful homeostasis than constantly running from your anxiety.

“#6. Your fear no longer motivates you, your vision for the future does – you take things one day at a time.”

https://www.instagram.com/p/B9Rnx1Tjme7/

May be Anita is on to something here.